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Comment on The Double Standard by Meghan

Meghan — Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:14:36 +0000

Well said! I can’t believe he was so lucky (or underestimated) as to get all that stuff. It’s both funny and appalling. I too have a very capable husband/father of my children, but I know a lot of friends who aren’t so lucky. Maybe that’s where it comes from? Also, I hope you post some pics and a re-cap of your trip soon!

Comment on Let’s Do 52! Week 3 by EMB

EMB — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 01:42:41 +0000

I’d be happy to link to both of you!

Comment on Let’s Do 52! Week 3 by Mahina

Mahina — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 23:58:06 +0000

Those photos are precious of him learning to ride a bike. My Project 52 post this week is about how motherhood is “mouthy” at http://www.lucasandmahina.com. Let me know if you want to link up!

Comment on Let’s Do 52! Week 3 by Chelsea McCown

Chelsea McCown — Fri, 20 Jan 2012 14:39:09 +0000

I’d love to link up!

Comment on Let’s Do 52! Week 1 by Dottie

Dottie — Wed, 04 Jan 2012 16:56:21 +0000

She's so freaking adorable! Have you ever checked out any of the stuff from My Four Hens? A lot of her stuff is along the same lines as Paint the Moon.

Comment on Another New Year’s Eve by Dottie

Dottie — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 16:09:48 +0000

I think we may be sharing at least a little bit of our brains once again. I’ve spent a lot of time lately thinking about the past, the future, and how impossible it is to predict what’s going to happen. My mind has come back to 2004 many times through all of this. 2004 was one of my best years ever, and as it came to a close, when I pictured the future, it was nothing like what my life has turned out to be at this point. The thought that I would end up having a job search that has lasted years with no end in sight and be stuck living in my childhood bedroom at 32 never crossed my mind. The one thing I keep reminding myself was that 7 years ago, I didn’t imagine I’d be in this spot; therefore, when I get down, I just need to keep in mind that 7 years from now, hopefully I’ll be in a better place that I can’t necessarily picture for myself at this point.

Comment on Who Am I Now? by Nichole Rairigh

Nichole Rairigh — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 02:46:16 +0000

Hi Emily, You have got to learn to give yourself a Pass. No one can do it all and no one expects you to. As a working mom too, some things just don’t get done and I am ok with it. I have had to get rid of any guilt and accept some chaos as the new norm. A relaxed mom who is kind to herself first relays that kind of energy to her children. The decisions you make will be the right ones. Sending you good thoughts. Nikki

Comment on Who Am I Now? by David Maggio

David Maggio — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 11:37:10 +0000

Wow Emily, I can’t exactly say I was ignorant and didn’t know what it is you go through, but now I know what you really go through. You might be my only sister, but you know you’re still my favorite sister. I’m proud of you and all the things you’ve accomplished through your life as well as all the things to come. I have 8 years to be like you and I’m hoping for atleast half as good. All I can say is now I know, and thank you.

Love you Em.

Comment on Who Am I Now? by Adelaide Mankato

Adelaide Mankato — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 03:15:27 +0000

I’m not saying this sarcastically or in a mean-spirited way, but as I was reading this, all I could think was, “Man, I wish I had your problems.” I would love to have children and a family, but it hasn’t happened. I would love to be able to take time from work to devote to my (for the time being) fictional family.
I hope you enjoy each moment with your family over the next year. I’m sure it will be hard for you to adjust, but think of all the adventures you’ll have that otherwise would have gone undiscovered. I’m happy for you and your family. It makes me happier that you seem to be approaching this opportunity with a grateful heart. I hope you enjoy every moment.

Comment on Who Am I Now? by Jessica

Jessica — Thu, 02 Jun 2011 02:31:30 +0000

Great post! I did spend some time home being “just a mom” and I found it very challenging. I love my kids, and I love being there for them. But I also kept feeling like I lost myself in so many ways, and all these great “Mom” expectations I had for myself…well, I found it even harder to accomplish because it seemed 100% of the responsibility was falling on me, and I needed a break and an outside source, too. And trying to be a more “perfect” wife and mother when you are home in so many ways sets you up to beat yourself up for not doing things “perfectly.” There is no perfect in parenting…or being a wife. You still find yourself struggling to balance the demands, and you still get upset when those around you don’t meet your expectations, and then sometimes when you are home you even feel worse that you have expectations for others.

There are some WONDERFUL aspects of being home – getting to witness all the little moments, and knowing that YOU are responsible for those accomplishments…but so many days are very challenging. I hope that you are able to find the balance you seek during your year at home, and I hope that you can find the joy in being home and doing all the things on your list. But, don’t forget to give yourself a break…staying home doesn’t mean you aren’t entitled to have expectations for your husband to have responsibilities with home and kids, and time for you to spend time on YOU and away from the kids. Good luck with your journey this next year! And I’m always here to be a supportive ear .